Are you a perfect example for your children?

February 28 2011
When I got mad today and hit my child "For his own good, "
I reconciled,and then I realized my plight...
Today, I taught my child to fight.

When interrupted by the phone,I said, "tell them I'm not home."
And then I thought, and had to sigh...
Today I taught my child to lie.

I told the tax man what I made,forgetting cash that was paid,
And than I blushed at this sad feat...
Today I taught my child to cheat.

I smugly bought a pirated CD,
But now the bells of shame must peal...
Today I taught my child to steal.

Today I cursed another race,Oh God, protect what I debase,
for now, I fear it is too late...
Today I taught my child to hate.

What are we teaching our Kids?
Are you a perfect example for your children?

Questions & Thoughts mailed by  Sivakumar

காதலித்து கெட்டு போ!

February 26 2011

அதிகம் பேசு

ஆதி ஆப்பிள் தேடு

மூளை கழற்றி வை 

முட்டாளை பிறபெடு

கடிகாரம் இருந்தும் மணி கேள்

காத்திருந்து கான்

தம்பிகள் தேடி போ

தூதுக்கு தயார் செய் 

தத்துவங்கள் கேட்காதே 

நாய் குட்டி கொஞ்சு 

நண்பன் இருந்தாலும் தனியாய் செல் 

கடிதம் எழுத கற்றுகொள்

விதவிதமாய் பொய் சொல் 

பின் தொடர்ந்து பல் இழி 

பொறுக்கி என்பாள் பொறு 

தெரிந்தும் தெரியாதது போல் நடி 

விழி ஆற்றில் விழு 

பூப்பறித்து கொடு 

மேகமென கலை 

மோகம் வளர்த்து மித 

மதி கெட்டு மாய்

கவிதைகள் கிறுக்கு 

கால்கொலுசில் இசை உணர் 

தாடி வளர்த்து கொள்

எடை குறைத்து சிதை

உளறல் வரும்வரை குடி 

ஊர் எதிர்த்தால் உதை

ஆராய்ந்து அழிந்து போ 

மெல்ல செத்து மீண்டு வா

திகட்ட திகட்ட காதலி 

காதலித்து கெட்டு போ!  

- பிரபு 

A few things that I did last week

February 25 2011

1) I deleted my Tamil Matrimonial account
Ten months of  proposals with Tamil Matrimonial. More than 250 views. 40 express interests. 15 accepts. A few became friends too. All that begins well has to end well too and I made my decision to quit. 
2) I was the MC for my friends wedding
I was made the Master of Ceremonies for my friend's wedding. I had a good time. The comedy chat stuff paid rich dividends. I thought that I would have a partner too. No mistress of ceremonies. But I didn't care much cos I had my eyes fixed on a few babes in the audience. But a closer look revealed to me that they were indeed my friends sisters. A simple coat of paint and some make-up can really transform an ordinary looking girl into a world beauty
3) I wrote one poetry 
I wrote in Tamil . Can anyone compose the music for my poetry. Glory be ye to Anitha alone.You guys wanna see it? If more than ten of my readers are interested in reading it, I will upload it in my blog soon.
4) Finished Project Successfully
I finished my first business project very successfully. But still I waiting for balance payment 55,000`.
 Great thanks to Green Vision Technologies for their timely support.
5)I met her
I saw her at last in the Dakshin restaurant. I met her too.Yet another Love story of mine soon to hit my blog
Thats all folks.

ParisHilton calling...

February 24 2011

My phone rang very late the night-before-last night. I checked my watch. It was 11 pm.Late night calls are always reserved for public personalities.I looked into my mobile. It read ParisHilton calling...

"Oh No! Not again", I thought to myself. It was the same girl. She was crazy about me. She even told once that she fantasizes about me. I finally decided that it is high time that I made her to change her mind. Her name is Paris Hilton. I hope my readers know that she likes to act in front of the camera.

I picked the call
ParisHilton : Hey Pepsiboy ( Low voice)... Mmmmmmuuuuuuaaaaah
Me : Yes tell me! What do you want? (Rough voice)
ParisHilton : I was just thinking about you
Me : OK
ParisHilton : Can I come over to your place?
Me : No My Mom is here!
ParisHilton : Please! I am looking at your photo now
Me : OK
ParisHilton : I am going for the Oscars tomorrow. Can I pose with your photo?
Me : You can! But do not trouble me any more.
ParisHilton : OK....Mmmmmmuuuuuuaaaaah
Me : Bang (Call Disconnected)

I do not know what happened the next day. But I was stunned to see this photo in the papers this morning.Some people are really crazy about me. I can't stop them.
Can you guys give me some tips to snub people like ParisHilton?
Note: Thanks Guru(my little bro) for introducing me to Photofunia.

The 10 drunk men

February 23 2011

I got a few pictures in the internet. A few pictures were sent to me by my friend. I took a picture.The result...
" The Ten best drunkards of our time"

10. I just Hit the pedal

9. Before and After

8. My dream stinks

7. I am doing my masters in Urine Technology

6.Is that my shoe in the air?

5.The door opened by itself

4. I call it the wet wet wet jogging

3. Beer-de-france

2. I can sit like my dog

1.Is it the Prabhupepsi?

Reveal the "honey" or the "vinegar"?!

February 22 2011

The preacher placed two identical containers on the table next to the pulpit. He quoted 1 Samuel 16:7 "The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart"

These containers came from the same factory, were made of the same materials, and can hold the same amount. But they are different, he explained.

Then he shook one container and it oozed out honey. He turned over the other, and vinegar spilled out. When a container is upset, whatever is in it comes out. Until containers were upset, they looked alike. The difference was within, and could not be seen. When they were upset, their contents were revealed.

Until we are upset we put on a good front. But when we are upset, we reveal our innermost thoughts and attitudes.

If someone irritated you today, What would flow out ?? Would you reveal the "honey" of grace and patience, or the "vinegar" of anger and sarcasm ??

"Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude
of sins" (1 Peter 4:8)
Have a terrific day knowing that the one who upsets you may be just
looking for some honey

How to fall in love?

February 21 2011
For Men
How to make a girl fall in love with you!!!
1) Sing for her
2)Cook for her
3)Dance for her
4)Play the guitar for her
5)Write poetry for her
6)Take her for long drives
7)Pamper her
8)Whisper sweet nothings into her ear
9) Give her flowers
10) Treat her like a princess

For Women
How to make a Man fall in love with you!!!
Just smile at him

Game Over.

Wonder Years

February 20 2011

I was going through my photo album.Pictures taken when I was just a three year old kid to pictures taken till last month.I have this habit of collecting pictures(hard copies) and pasting them in collage form in albums.

But the last few years, with the advent of digital photographs and high-pixel storage capacity of computers, I seldom take a printed copy anymore. But the feeling of holding a hard copy printed picture in your hand is entirely different. I am sure everyone will agree with that.

Now coming back to this post, I decided to start a tag. The rules are very simple. Go back down your memory lane by adding your childhood pictures and write some lines that correlate to the picture. Finally when you are done with it, just tag the names of those you wish to add their childhood pictures too...I am tagging everyone who reads this post
So here we go... Major incidents in my life

I am just 3 years old(1983)
Started writing the alphabets fully with great efficiency.
I started walking without any support.

I am seven years old (1987)
My parents make me mottai every year. I still have straight hair. I never knew that I will get a gel to keep my hair in control.
I fell in love with my cousin Sharmi.

I am fifteen years old (1995)
Where did my beard go?
I had 2 girls in my life now.

I am sixteen years old (1996)
My first stage performance with my first suit got over ( Will upload the audio soon. I do not have the video of the performance).
Anitha is my only sweetheart in my life.

I am eighteen years old (1998)
I just entered my college. Having a small trip at weekends with Anitha in my TVS50 bike. Anitha is so beautiful now.
I am the king of my college & I ragged my seniors too.

I am twenty years old (2000)
Why do I cut my hair short.
I am doing my second year computer science.I have a back-paper too (Binomial Theorem -Discreet Mathematics).

I am twenty three years (2003)
I have started my post graduation again. 
Anitha and I planned for a new business together.

I am twenty five years old (2005)
I have applied for my passport.
I have got a job in Bangalore.

I am twenty seven years old(2007)
Started my new business AirVoice showroom in Pollachi.
I am diving into the sawmill (logs & timber) field now.

I am twenty eight years old(2008)
I never expect this could happen in my life yes I lost my business, Anitha, and every thing.
I suffered being a schizophrenic.

I am twenty nine years old (2010)
I shifted to Tiruppur.
I have started my Google Valet Store.

I am thirty years old (2011)
I sit in front of the computer and type this...
Note:I am single.

Subban The Gardener

February 19 2011

This incident was happened before 13 years back

James S. Hewett is a wonderful inspirational writer. I happened to read a portion of his book,"Illustrations Unlimited", and I could not control myself but post that little inspirational story in my Blog.It is a story about a man called, "Subban". Sans much ado, let us read about Subban

I did my higher secondary in  a school called Viswadeepthi in Pollachi, there lived a mentally retarded adult named Subban. It was during depression years and there was no place for Subban to be "kept" but at School. He lived there with his wife and they survived on the work that Subban did as a gardener.
He had a proverbial "green thumb," and the places where he did the gardening were easy to identify. The lawns,shrubs, hedges, flowers--all showed care, skill, and loving attention. Subban also did "volunteer" work. He cut grass, raked leaves, and planted flowers in what would otherwise have been unsightly vacant lots.

He was probably best known for his "oil can." He always carried a small can of lubricating oil in his hip pocket. A squeaky door or hinge or gate always got a "free" dose from Subban's oil can.

Never a Sunday went by that Subban was not in school church with his wife. Yes, we boys tried to "tease" him. But he always got the better of us because he refused to be anything but cheerful, full of good humor and totally unflappable.

Subban died a few years after I left town to do my +2 in Chennai. It was not easy to arrange, but I went back for the funeral. I was not prepared for what I saw. It seemed that everyone in town had decided to attend the funeral and there were scores of others, like myself, who had traveled from distant places to be there.
Without consciously attempting to do so, Subban had patterned for us the kind of life that really matters. No, he had not achieved fame, fortune, or honor. But he had been a worker, an optimist, an "easer of tensions" and a faithful gardener. He was a man who "overcame" a handicap that he didn't even know he had.

Long live Bachelors !!!!

February 18 2011

Every man should get married some time; after all, happiness is not the only thing in life!!

Bachelors should be heavily taxed. It is not fair that some men should be happier than others.
Oscar Wilde, copied by Sudarshan--

Don't marry for money; you can borrow it cheaper.
Scottish Proverb, copied by Pooja--

I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years.

Men have a better time than women; for one thing, they marry later; for another thing, they die earlier. Mencken, copied by Sruthi--

When a newly married couple smiles, everyone knows why. When a ten-year married couple smiles, everyone wonders why.

Love is blind but marriage is an eye-opener.
-- Manoj

When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing : either the car is new or the wife.

I take my wife everywhere, but she keeps finding her way back to home always.

I asked my wife, "Where do you want to go for our anniversary?" She said,"Somewhere I have never been!" I told her, "How about the kitchen?"

We always hold hands. If I let go, she shops.

My wife was in beauty saloon for two hours. That was only for the estimate.

She ran after the garbage truck, yelling, "Am I too late for the garbage?" Following her down the street I yelled, "No, jump in." 

If your dog is barking at the back door and your wife yelling at the front door, who do you let in first? The Dog of course... at least he'll shut up after u let him in!

A man placed some flowers on the grave of his dearly parted mother and started back toward his car when his attention was diverted to another man kneeling at a grave. The man seemed to be praying with profound intensity and kept repeating, 'Why did u have to die? Why did you have to die?" The first man approached him and said, "Sir, I don't wish to interfere with your private grief, but this demonstration of pain in is more than I've ever seen before. For whom do you mourn so? Deeply? A child? A parent?"The mourner took a moment to collect himself, then replied "My wife's first husband."
-- Anonymous

A couple came upon a wishing well. The husband leaned over, made a wish  and threw in a coin . The wife decided to make a wish, too. But she leaned over too much, fell into the well, and drowned. The husband was stunned for a while but then smiled "It really works ! "
-- Anonymous

Law of garbage free truck ...

February 17 2011

One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the railway station. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! 

The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, 'Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!' This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, 'The Law of the Garbage Truck.' He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment. 

As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally. Just smile, wave, wish them well, and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets. The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. 


Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, 

So ... Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don't. Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it! Have a garbage-free day! Laughter is still the best medicine !