You’re not in a relationship!

October 21 2010

The other day, this friend of mine was cribbing about how his girlfriend was ignoring him and being stupid and dominating. I told him that this happens because he takes all the scrap. The day he decides to give it back to her, things would improve. And his reply was – “You’re not in a relationship. You won’t understand.”

Fine, I’m not in a relationship but I’m not stupid. I have never been able to understand how boys can let girls dominate them. And this is not an isolated case. I 've seen quite a few people like this. They will do whatever their girlfriends tell them to do without thinking twice about it.(once I was also like that) It’s a relationship dammit, She hasn't bought you or something. And I don’t understand these girls either. How can you dominate somebody or encroach upon their privacy like that? Back when I was thinking I was gonna become an computer professional, I knew quite a few girls who used to go to hackers to get their boyfriend’s e-mail ID hacked so they could have an idea about what he was doing and whom he was talking to. Last Saturday too, there was this gurl on Road who said she spied on her boyfriend and had fights with him because he was talking to “unknown gurls” online. Give me a break, madam. How would you feel if your man decides to hack into your account and check how many boys you’re friends with? Or how many sites you have subscribed to? How would you feel then huh?  But you won’t understand. Just like I won’t understand because I’m not in a relationship.hmmmm!